[originaltext] Parenting can be simultaneously the hardest and the most rewa

Parenting can be simultaneously the hardest and the most rewarding job. And yet with anxiety and depression in our world,(20)how can we change the culture of fear-based parenting so that our children can truly flourish? Here are a few tips from positive psychology experts that can be easily incorporated into your parenting and have been proven to increase happiness.
    Actively listening to your child means eye contact, not interrupting, and not waiting for your turn to talk. If they aren’t asking for advice, don’t give it. Instead ask them questions like, " What do you think you could do about that?" or "How did that make you feel?"(21)Really hearing what your child wants to tell you will encourage them to continue communicating. Making every conversation a lesson leaves them feeling inferior. Take advantage of time together in the car or at meals and practice just hearing their ideas with an open mind.
    Children learn more from your example than they do from your words. If you want them to believe that part of growth is making mistakes, they need to see you burn dinner or fall on the ski slopes occasionally. One of your most powerful opportunities to demonstrate this to your child is when you make a parenting mistake. Let’s say you lose your cool and yell. Instead of hoping they will forget your outburst you can say, "I don’t want to yell at you when I am frustrated. I’m sorry. Even mommies make mistakes. "
20. How can we make children grow better?
21. What is the benefit of listening to children carefully?
22. What is the best way to educate your children?