[originaltext] In one way of thinking, failure is a part of life. In another

In one way of thinking, failure is a part of life. In another way, failure may be a way towards success. The "spiderstory"  is often told. Robert Bruce, leader of the Scots in the 13th century, was hiding in a cave from the English. He watched a spider spinning a web. The spider tried to reach across a rough place in the rock. He tried six times to span the gap. On the seventh time, he made it and went on to spin his web. Bruce is said to have taken heart and to have gone on to defeat the English.
    Edison, the inventor of the light bulb, made hundreds of models that failed before he found the right way to make one. Once he was asked why he kept on trying to make a new type of battery when he had failed so often. He replied,
"Failure? 1 have no failures. Now, I know 50,000 ways that it won’ t work."
    So what? First, always think about your failure. What caused it? Were conditions right? Were you in top form yourself?  What can you change so that things may go right next time?
    Second, is the goal you’re trying to reach the right one? Try to do some titivating about what your real goals may be. Think about this question, "If I do succeed in this, where will it gel me?" This may help you prevent failure in things you shouldn’ t be doing anyway.
    The third thing to bear in mind about failure is that it’s a part of life. Learn to live with yourself even though you may have failed. Remember, you can’t win them all .